50 Questions to ask your relatives
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What is your full name? Why did your parents select this name for you? Did you have a nickname?
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When and where were you born?
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How did your family come to live there?
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Were there other family members in the area? Who?
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What was the house (apartment, farm, etc.) like? How many rooms? Bathrooms? Did it have electricity? Indoor plumbing? Telephones?
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Were there any special items in the house that you remember?
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What is your earliest childhood memory?
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Describe the personalities of your family members.
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What kind of games did you play growing up?
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What was your favorite toy and why?
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What was your favorite thing to do for fun (movies, go to the beach, etc.)?
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Did you have family chores? What were they? Which was your least favorite?
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Did you receive an allowance? How much? Did you save your money or spend it?
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What was school like for you as a child? What were your best and worst subjects? Where did you attend grade school? High school? College?
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What school activities and sports did you participate in?
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Do you remember any fads from your youth? Popular hairstyles? Clothes?
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Who were your childhood heroes?
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What were your favorite songs and music genres?
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Did you have any pets? If so, what kind and what were their names?
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What was your religion growing up? What church, if any, did you attend?
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Were you ever mentioned in a newspaper?
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Who were your friends when you were growing up?
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What world events had the most impact on you when you were a child? Did any of them personally affect your family?
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Describe a typical family dinner. Did you all eat together as a family? Who did the cooking? What were your favorite foods?
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How were holidays (birthdays, Christmas, etc.) celebrated in your family? Did your family have special traditions?
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How is the world today different from what it was like when you were a child?
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Who was the oldest relative you remember as a child? What do you remember about them?
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What do you know about your family surname?
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Is there a naming tradition in your family, such as always giving the firstborn son the name of his paternal grandfather?
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What stories have come down to you about your parents? Grandparents? More distant ancestors?
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Are there any stories about famous or infamous relatives in your family?
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Have any recipes been passed down to you from family members?
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Are there any physical characteristics that run in your family?
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Are there any special heirlooms, photos, bibles, or other memorabilia that have been passed down in your family?
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What was the full name of your spouse? Siblings? Parents?
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When and how did you meet your spouse? What did you do on dates?
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What was it like when you proposed (or were proposed to)? Where and when did it happen? How did you feel?
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Where and when did you get married?
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What memory stands out the most from your wedding day?
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How would you describe your spouse? What do (did) you admire most about them?
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What do you believe is the key to a successful marriage?
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How did you find out you were going to be a parent for the first time?
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Why did you choose your children's names?
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What was your proudest moment as a parent?
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What did your family enjoy doing together?
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What was your profession and how did you choose it?
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If you could have had any other profession, what would it have been? Why wasn't this your first choice?
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Of all the things you learned from your parents, what do you feel was the most valuable?
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What accomplishments are you most proud of?
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What is the one thing you most want people to remember about you?